My Summer Gym Freeze is Almost Over and I Am SO EXCITED

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I got an e-mail this morning that my gym freeze is almost over.

Did I say gym?

I meant club.

Club with the scent of Eucalptus, a never-ending menu of different classes, and an immaculately clean steam room. Club where I can find solitude after a busy family weekend, or community when the kids are in school and Greg is traveling.

Club with fluffy white towels, Kohls shampoo and conditioner, and my cheerful, thoughtful swim instructor.

I can’t wait to walk into the front doors, breathe in the scent of essential oils, and go upstairs for an excellent workout followed by a quiet escape to the steam room and a peaceful, uninterrupted shower. (Ohhh, the uninterrupted shower, with no sibling disputes to mediate. Luxury.)

I miss it so much.

I meant every word of the post I wrote last week about stealing bike rides when I can while we’re up in Maine for the summer near family, and loving the unstructured time I have with my kids in the great outdoors.

But I also look forward to being able to work out consistently. And it’s nice to have regular child-free time for household tasks so I feel refreshed and energized and ready to answer the eternal question “What’s for dinner?” when the kids come home from school.

I think the key to being happy about these two very different worlds, Maine and Massachusetts, summer and the school year, is not to resent myself for loving each one fully.

My gut instinct is to feel guilty that I’m excited to go back. But it’s fine to love the idea of going back to the gym and having the kids in school. There are many wonderful things to look forward to.

I can enjoy every glorious moment with family watching the kids dance in the waves AND look forward to returning to the gym, because I’m not sacrificing my summer for the fall. It’s inevitable. It’s coming. The kids need to go to school.

I might as well look forward to it.

Enjoy the rest of your summer, and make a mental list of the things you’re excited for this fall! Pumpkin whatever? Cooler running weather? Halloween? It softens the end of August to look forward to something. 🙂

Seals, Seaglass and Treasure – a Gorgeous Maine Sail

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Ahhh, Maine. Ahhh, summer.

Now that it’s August I’m reminded that summer will be over before we know it. Time to seize the moment, review the summer bucket list, get out there and make some final memories in the fleeting days before school begins!

We almost didn’t go on this sailing trip. My parents had tasks around the house and laundry piling up. We had the same, and a busy weekend planned besides.

But the lure of an island treasure-hunting trip proved too much to withstand and a magical afternoon ensued.

The laundry obviously can’t wait until September, but the memories my kids made with their grandparents on this afternoon sail will last a lifetime. I can throw a load of wash in at 8 p.m. if it means days like these with family.

Wishing you a wonderful remainder of your summer, may you make some beautiful memories of your own!

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Wanderlust – is hiking next for us?

While Greg and I were in Amsterdam we stumbled upon Mendo, a self-described “candy store for book aficionados”. Travel books, home decorating books, photography books… it was a curated visual wonderland that we could have browsed for hours.

We grudgingly picked just one to bring home as a coffee table book. Eschewing the home decorating books that inspire envy or to-do lists, and the photography books that often contained a few nudes, we landed on a volume called Wanderlust by Cam Honan and Gestalten that photo-documents some of the best hiking trails in the world.

It’s epic.

In the forward Robert Moor cautions that this book is not intended to be a practical hiking guide. But rather it’s a “compendium of dream walks” that might inspire us to find trails closer to our own home. (Though, once the journey begins, who knows where it will end.)

We’ve explored many of the trails and paths in town, but this book reminds me that there are gorgeous, quiet, beautiful places nearby that we’ve never seen.

Some of my favorite running memories are places in nature I’ve visited that I otherwise wouldn’t have.

I glance over at my 5 and almost 7 year old and wonder how far we could get with a day-hiking guide to New England and a little bug spray.

Mountains? Waterfalls? Cliff views? Certainly some autumn foliage.

Might be worth finding out.

 

The writer of Wanderlust, Cam Honan, has been called “the most traveled hiker on earth” by Backpacker Magazine and has hiked in over 50 countries logging over 55,000 miles. I checked out his blog, The Hiking Life, and it’s a wealth of information for beginning and advanced hikers alike. Browse his resource guides if you’re inspired to plan your own hike!

Motivate Yourself With Temptation Bundling

Having trouble motivating yourself to go for a run, catch up on e-mails or fold that laundry?

Katherine Milkman, an associate professor at Wharton, has a possible solution: temptation bundling. Milkman found that people are more likely to stick with a task they sometimes avoid if it’s bundled together with something they really enjoy but only allow themselves to do when they’re completing the less enjoyable task. You can hear her explain the concept in her own words in the Freakonomics podcast episode When Willpower Isn’t Enough.

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Only do yoga while on the treadmill! Oh wait… no.

For example?

I’ve started listening to stand-up comedy only while I clean the kitchen. It’s the one household task I dread most. Listening to stand-up makes it more pleasant and also makes me less likely to procrastinate twenty times during the clean-up to check social media on my phone. (I’m excellent at prolonging unpleasant tasks with distraction. You too?)

What temptation bundling isn’t: Temptation bundling is not a reward system where you give yourself a reward after you complete a task. It’s the pairing of activities so they happen simultaneously.

For her research Milkman used the audiobook version of The Hunger Games to get people to exercise at the gym. They only had access to the audiobook while at the gym, and it worked.

“Initially, full and intermediate treatment participants visited the gym 51% and 29% more frequently, respectively, than control participants…” -quoted from research paper abstract

Temptation Bundling Ideas

  • Treat yourself to a latte, homemade vegan unicorn frappuccino, or smoothie to drink only during a long meeting
  • Pair a tv show, podcast or audiobook with a task you dislike
  • Visit a favorite coffee shop only when you’re catching up on e-mails

This could work with your children, too!

  • Download a game they can only play while you’re running on the treadmill at home
  • Have a special playlist with some favorite songs that’s the “clean up” playlist
  • Put together a special box of toys they only get to use on long car rides

Tips for Success

  • Think about your current frequency of the two items you’re bundling. If you currently get a smoothie daily, trying to save it for your weekly meeting might backfire.
  • Don’t cheat – if you choose a podcast to listen to while you’re running, choose a different podcast to listen to in the car.
  • Don’t ruin a favorite activity – if you truly love a glass of port once in a while, don’t make it conditional that you have to do something unpleasant while you drink it. Use temptation bundling to make your life better!

Similar Strategy: Activity Pairing

Temptation bundling reminds me a little of Gretchen Rubin’s suggestion about activity pairing, which I wrote about in my blog post about doing planks while my tea steeped. It’s more of a habit forming and time-saving strategy than a motivational one, and it can also be useful. Call your parents on your car ride home from work, do your foot stretches while you brush your teeth, etc.

Happy doing! If you have successful temptation bundling or activity pairings you love, I’d enjoy hearing about them in comments below!

 

Veggie Burgers are for Everyone: Vegan Resources for Non-Vegans

This morning I’m working on a resource guide to give people after tonight’s screening of Cowspiracy: The Sustainability Secret that I’ve organized through Sustainable Wellesley.

One of my first messages to everyone is this: remember that every meal counts!

Would I love to see a vegan world? Yes. But I’d also love to see someone start eating a veggie burger out to lunch once in while.

It’s much more feasible that all Americans might eat meatless one day a week than that 1/7th of the population will go vegan.

And every meal matters.

An estimated 2,500 gallons of water are needed to produce one pound of beef. Choosing a veggie or black bean burger could reduce your water consumption by more than skipping showers for an entire month. See more mind-blowing facts about our power to conserve by making different food choices here: http://www.cowspiracy.com/facts/

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So, veggie burgers are for everyone. Or black bean burgers. Or bean and rice burritos. Or sweet potato enchiladas. DEFINITELY sweet potato enchiladas.

Here are some resources that will help you find delicious environmentally friendly meal choices whether you’re committing to meatless Mondays, trying your first veggie burger, or going all-in.
Popular Plant-Based Recipe Blogs
ohsheglows.com
isachandra.com
findingvegan.com
kblog.lunchboxbunch.com

Meal Planning
lighter.world – meal planning platform with healthy recipes, food preference filters, menu creation, and instacart integration for grocery delivery

Nutrition & Health
pcrm.org – The Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine is one of the most well-respected and comprehensive guides to plant-based eating health and nutrition
nutritionfacts.org – quick video and blog summaries of the latest research on food and health

Finding Restaurants
happycow.net – online database (and app) listing vegetarian, vegan and veg-friendly restaurants by zip code

Other Documentaries
Forks Over Knives
Vegucated
• Earthlings
What The Health

Popular Cookbooks
• The Oh She Glows Cookbook by Angela Liddon
Plant-Powered Families by Dreena Burton
Thug Kitchen: The Official Cookbook
But I Could Never Go Vegan! By Kristy Turner
Isa Does It by Isa Chandra Moskowitz

Vegan Resources
• Vegan Outreach’s Mentor Program veganoutreach.org
Food for Thought Podcast – Colleen Patrick-Goudreau
• PETA’s Vegan Starter Kit peta.org

Meal Delivery Services
• Purple Carrot (you receive recipe and prepped ingredients) purplecarrot.com
• Fresh N Lean (meals premade for reheating) freshnlean.com
• Veestro (meals premade for reheating) veestro.com